I am Obliged :)

Ahh that's all !!!

Well thinking of something you did not get makes you think in a positive manner as well that what have you got till now. Like what ?? A good time, a good life to live, a good smile to give and make others happy, a worthy enough mind to attract, a good family, a nice mother tongue, awesome friends, courage to accept the impossible things and still go for the same, accept the reality and still dream for the same....much more I guess :)

Whenever we look at god we forget to thank him for the good things we have got in our lives and blame him for the things which are not in our lives. Well the truth is we ourselves are responsible for our miseries and things which we did not get. Sometimes a bit of effort, a bit of courage and a bit of faith in god is enough to get the most loved thing but the "bit" is remaining in all of us... and that's so true to realize.

A bit of silence can stop a situation to get converted into argument, a bit of understanding can make your loved ones smile, a bit of care can make someone feel the warmth of your love, a bit of courage can make the impossible thing happen in your life. It's all a bit of efforts which are lacking and we are blaming on god or situation .. what a nice way to blame on him !!

Ahh well I don't blame him for the things I  did not get. Sometimes it was me who did not made the efforts and sometimes someone else could be the reason of me not getting the desired thing...but the subject matter is still the same. "Lack of Efforts"

Moving on to be grateful to the things I got is that love, that presence, that care, that support, that fun, those beautiful moments and all that which made me smile which no one else could get coz that happened to only me and I am the "heroine" of my life :p :) so no one else can ever feel the same. Yes ofcourse you sometimes get the unwanted and undesirable. But then I wonder who was responsible?? Me?? Lack of Efforts?? could be mine or ......!!!



Well let's just move on and be happy with the great things in life.

"Acche ka fal accha hi hota ha :)" 

If you are good then something good will happen to you for sure and be happy with the ones you have... time once gone never comes back but it teaches you a lesson every time.. it could be different from person to person and the experiences could be different as well but at the end of the day it's all same ....the only word ...the only lesson ......."Move On and be happy with what you have" 

The Oldiess.. the goldiess like Fevistickiesss !! My Youngistaan !!

Ahh !! a new one.. I wish I could write something funny but I am so damn confused why this writer in me comes at this situation only.

This time I am gonna write the conclusion of this blog in the starting itself and that is ....the friends whom you meet when you are nothing and still they are with you in all your deeds are the friends forever.

No matter where they go, no matter they call you or not, no matter how busy they are but the feeling which you get when they ping you just once or meet you just once in a year or so is like ...wohh !! It makes you feel like you still have those "nikamme" types people in your life who used to fight just for a treat of "Patties or samosas" and then you all mutually decide to do contry and believe me that contry of 10 , 20 or so used to matter a lot. How we people used to put that 10 Rs note on the table and do the budget planning in the canteen, those silly fights and not talking to any one member of the group and then suddenly asking that particular friend to give us party.

A small incidence of my Rakhi Bro Rahul .:
.once he got to know about a secret of one of the member of the group which was new to all of us as well. Where I and other group members took it normally my cutie pie Rahul made a blunder out of it and the amazing dialogue was

Rahul : "Muje pta ha tum log muje sab kuch q nahi btate  "

Me: "kya pta ha bahi"

Rahul : "Tum sab CBSE se padhe ho aur me Haryana Borad se isliye "

Ohh my god the whole serious enviro became the funniest moment of our lives. I mean can any one give such a silly reason of not telling the truth. Well that was all a quality of my lovely bro jiske har roj 12 bajte thee !!

Hitakshi the most mature girl of our group , our Katrina Kaif , the plan maker, the organiser:)
Rakesh... My RK oops hamara RK , the most helpful person of this world I guess and personally a shoulder to lean on and a person who always gives you an ear when you need someone the most. "the strength of our group"  .
Harshit .. The busiest guy ever and is till now !! well no words to say for an intelligent dude like him.

Ahh Varun.... the prank master and the life of group. The Ranbeer Kapoor of YJHD . No one knew his plans but now when we are knowing that , he makes us feel so proud .

Sneha  amm the peaceful butterfly and the gem of group. "Happy Birthday Sweetheart <3".

That was my Youngistann!!

My real strengths, those who were there during my odds and of course during the good days to make my pocket empty ..lol

When I look into the past and think about those trouble free days when just a breakup was the biggest misery of life and now when every day a new misery starts and we gotta face it like some super man or woman, the only difference I find is I don't have those super nalayak budiies who were there to convert the worries   into some new opportunities or a matter to laugh on :)

But still just a msg makes me feel that yes no matter where you guyz but will always be the closest..
You people are my Goldiesss!!! The gems ... My Youngistann !!

But life never remains the same. The moment you move on and find some new friends and start spending some good time with them they become your guddy buddy. No harm in making new and good friends. Well I found some amazing friends after my graduation days and even now the series is going on. But lemme tell you guyz the real fun was there. The real smile was that only when tears used to roll out while laughing.

No matter with whom you share your sorrows but the real satisfaction comes when those Goldiess listen to that and after a silence makes you laugh just coz of that worry ..

Omg !! how much to write and now coming to the end I wonder I was about to write some other stuff but just a ping of u all makes me forget all worries and other miseries. I am so thankful to god that I am blessed with my Youngistaan!!

Ahh this is not it ..as I said life makes you meet some new wonders of your lives..some good experiences and some bad ...still hanging between those experiences but you guyzz rockzzzzzz n  always will !!

GOOD LUCK MY YOUNGISTANN !! :) 





"Well just a ping from a newer one and I am bound to appreciate that Goldiee as well. Ahh a Cancerian again. I was so afraid of gelling up with a cancer now but amm I wonder why this naughtiness makes me forget all my worries ;) Well what to say for a guy who can write an "Essay Kese" in just two days of knowing you and exactly the way you are.. yes I had tears in my eyes , yes there was a smile on my face and yes that Essay Kese makes my day whenever I read it!!

You are .................. ahh I guess this should be a suspense and shall continue till my next blog. You gotta wait a little bit for your consideration :) Meetha Meetha Tu !!